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Home is where the puzzle has all its pieces!

Home is not only where your heart may be. It can be many things such as a safe haven, a place where love starts and grow. A place where people start families, raise their children, carry on or start new traditions. It can be a place where other family members or friends come to visit and possibly enjoy a meal together or just spend time enjoying each others company.

The material structure of the home as far as being safe would be important to me but the life inside would be of more importance. Like hearing the little giggles of my sons when they were small and watching them as they grow, my mind storing up memories for a day that I knew would come, when they would be grown and gone and I would be left there behind trying to remember every little thing that went on while we were together.

Remembering good times, bad times, happy times and sad times and longing for a repeat of the most important part of all, the love that we shared as a family, the fulfillment that came from the smallest things accomplished. A home can come in many shapes, sizes and forms. It truly is what’s inside that counts, even if material things are few, the house can be a home when love resides within.

~Charlene Swain Matts

The Writing Group: Foreword

The people who contributed to this collection of pictures, poetry and prose range roughly in age from thirty to eighty. Some live or have lived in the Tedford Shelter or in their cars or in tents in the woods; some live in subsidized housing. Some are unemployed; some live on disability checks; some have part time or seasonal jobs; others are retired.

What we all have in common is The Gathering Place at 5 Tenney Way, Brunswick, which is open Monday through Friday from 9:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. for coffee, snacks, companionship, cards, puzzles and on Thursday afternoons for writing.

Over the past four years, I’ve hosted anywhere from one to a dozen writers who have shared stories, laughed (a lot), and cried (a little). I usually throw out a general topic—the first, as I recall, was “Scars,” and the latest, as I write this, was “Doors I have Walked Through--- although people can (and do) write about anything that is on their minds. Some of the topics I’ve given will be self-evident as you read; other topics won’t matter: what’s important is the response. Some of the pieces have been edited from grammar and spelling, but we’ve tried to maintain the original voice and content.

When we first began writing four years ago, some people thought we were having an English class, so they moved as far away from our table as they could; when we began sharing what we’d written, however, they can back, at first to listen, and then over the next few weeks, to join us.

Why? For many of us, writing is a way to make sense of the world, especially when our minds are looping around a particular problem. What I’ve also learned is that all of us need to be heard—listened to, respected—especially if we’ve fallen on hard times and feel that no one care anymore.

What else have I learned over the past four years? Probably the most important thing is that despite common stereotypes, homelessness and poverty have many faces, many voices and that both homelessness and poverty go far beyond not having a physical place to live or a specific job to get to. “Homeless” might mean losing a job that has given you an identity for twenty years, losing a spouse, a child or a friend, losing your health. “Poverty” may mean any number of spiritual or emotional deprivations.

Someone once said that going into The Gathering Place, he couldn’t tell who was a volunteer and who was a client. Four years of writing and listening to stories have shown me that’s because there really isn’t that much of a difference between any of us.

--Rick Wile
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The Gathering Place